“I did not want to leave home without receiving this year’s Tika and Jamara (sacred plant),” Magar said, adding, “But I was compelled to leave early in order to earn money and make them happy as I was jobless for years.” Carrying copies of passport, medical report and other documents, Magar was visibly sobbing at the airport. He, however, told his 60-year-old father, who came to see him off, to borrow money to celebrate the festival and that he would repay the amount soon. He is contracted to work with Lean Hurt Company, Malaysia, for three years.

Magar is among hundreds of youths who leave for countries such as Malaysia, Saudi Arabia, Qatar and United Arab Emirates every day in search of greener pastures for abroad.

Likewise, 34-year-old Suk Maya Surkheti of Dhading was seen calming her two children at the airport gate before boarding the flight. “I am feeling like I am the most unfortunate mother right now as I am unable to be with my children and celebrate Dashain this year,” she said.

According to Ramesh Dhungel, a historian, festivals such as Dashain are losing charm and importance among people these days due to growing distance among family members.

“The absence of family members during a festival like Dashain could ultimately impact our values, culture and tradition,” he said.